2018 was a triumphant year for Sadistique, confirming its place as the most popular and spectacular BDSM in Italy and one of the best in Europe. 2019 is going to start even bigger with a truly special edition Sunday, January 6th, in the same club we customary chose for its quality and hospitality. The party will run from 3PM to 8PM featuring several unmissable surprise we are going to reveal over the next days, but we can already announce the monthly theme for all the more fetish-y fans.

Following our tradition, a basic invariable dress code is required to participate, but every month you can choose to follow an additional theme allowing more possibilities of winning the contest awarding two complimentary entry tickets to the next edition. This time, also taking advantage of the chilly weather, we went classic with latex! And… no, it doesn’t necessarily have to be unoriginal. Try having a look at the inspirational gallery, and amaze us with your intriguing intepretations of the theme!

Here they are! In November, the theme of Sadistique, the BDSM party held monthly in Milan since 2005, was The Inquisition – and this very mixed couple of witch and confessor is the one that best captured it among the photographed subjects, mixing fetish elements, irony and great details. Their prize are two complimentary entry tickets for the December 2nd party. …And what about you? Have you prepared your outfit to win this month?

Trying to judge Sadistique, the monthly kinky party of Milan, from its official photos, can be deceiving. Among the action, the fun, the MasterClasses and the exhibitions, very few participants find enough free time to visit the photo set and have their portrait taken. Of them, just a minority signs off the authorization to have the photos published on this website – and within this smaller subset, we select just a little selection of shots.

Having said this, here are some of the guests of the November edition of Sadistique. The winner of the contest for the best themed (and photographed) outfit will follow in a few days.

Have you learned how to use rope for Japanese bondage? Do you know how to lay it and where to knot it? Great! So now you are ready to study the remaining 90% of the art of kinbaku. You can start at Sadistique, the fantastic BDSM event to be held Sunday, December 2nd in Milan. The incomparable lecturer of this month’s MasterClass will be La Quarta Corda, one of the most prepared Italian shibari teachers. His lesson, from 4 to 5 PM, will be dedicated to kakehiki and semenawa, two key elements in his philosophy.

Kakehiki is strategy. Using force is never the best solution with bondage. Sometimes having a good kakehiki allows to bring the partner beyond their limit, to do something without making it feel like an abuse. The same strategy must be employed when we want to experiment seme, or torment, together. Semenawa (‘punishing rope’) doesn’t just mean torture. It also indicates the discovery of the weak points, fears and emotions driving the tied person, and pushing them to live them in a consensual, intimate and controlled setting in order to exit the experience stronger and purified. The key is using rope to create a relationship that goes beyond sensations and emotions. Other topics of the class will be kotobazeme (words as torture), suuchinawa (shameful rope), shikarizeme (scolding punishment) and especially ma, which is what gives whatever we do with ropes its meaning.

Free from the limits imposed by reality, BDSM comics can be a truly fascinating trip inside the wildest erotic fantasies – if done right. In fact, very often exceptionally talented artists happen to have not even the slightest idea of what they are drawing… and it shows. The artist who is going to exhibit her works at the December 2 Sadistique event in Milan, on the other hand, is totally proficient in this subject.

Radaaria has been working as a fetish illustrator and comic book artist since the Nineties, but she also is a pillar of the Italian kinky scene as the founder of Legami, the largest local online community dedicated to extreme eroticism. When she is not drawing nor managing the website, she also is an activist for alternative sexualities – and this is why making her schedule and our party dates meet literally required years of attempts. This time however she will finally be present to enjoy the party and to exhibit her works – including a spanking new creation specially created for Sadistique.

Sadistique, the grand BDSM event in Milano, notoriously has a different theme every month. This is an additional game to the regular dress code: inventing a themed outfit is fun, makes for a varied ambiance and… increases the chances to win two free entry tickets for the next month if you choose to get photographed and published. But this time something odd happened.

When we announced that on December 2nd the theme would be Barbarella – Vintage sci-fi, several younger guests looked at us perplexed, confessing they had no idea what we were talking about. So let’s make amends right now: Barbarella was the protagonist of the same-name movie from the Sixties, inspired by a famous French comic. Its iconic, ironic and sexy look gave origin to the “space fashion” fad by Paco Rabanne, Pierre Cardin and André Courréges. Or, in other words, the perfect inspiration to have fun with a bizarre vintage idea of fetish joining seduction, self-irony and creativity.

Now that we are clear, we invite you to have a look at the above links and at the gallery we set up as inspiration… and then to dive in your closets and vintage markets to amaze Sadistique with your kinky fantasy!

Some times choosing the winners of the complimentary tickets to Sadistique, the monthly BDSM party in Milan, is quite hard. The prize goes to the best outfits among those who signed the form allowing publication… but they also have to follow a theme, which last month was Leather. It happens, then, to regretfully exclude great but not totally themed ideas – even though there always are lots of great alternatives. Like these ones: this month winners couldn’t be more in leather than this.

And this month… will you be the winner?

Millennial-style pastel colors aren’t exactly what you would expect from a BDSM party, but Sadistique, the monthly kinky event in Milano, is used to surprising its guests. So, just relax and enjoy these portraits taken at the October 2018 edition by Giulio Malfer – and don’t forget to come back in a few days to see who won the two complimentary entry tickets for November reserved for the most themed portrait!

The totally reassuring fellow in the above picture is called Silvio Pan, and for over ten years now he’s been earning a living by tormenting people with needles, scalpels, suturing and branding tools. One of the most highly regarded body modification experts in Italy, starting this month he is also going to be a recurring presence at Sadistique, the extreme eroticism extravaganza held monthly in Milano since 2005.

On November 4th, Silvio will participate with a dedicated booth where you’ll be able to get your own piercing or body mod – more specifically, those more BDSM-oriented that some ultra-orthodox piercing studios don’t love too much. Being a certified professional, he will obviously respect all of the sterilization and safety requirements, using single-use instruments and so on. In other words, this is going to be a wonderful opportunity to send your fear packing and finally get those changes you’ve always dreamt of… or at least to seriously discuss them with an expert who can offer the best suggestions for your case. How can you resist?

Oh, by the way… we ain’t saying, but you may really want to come over right on time, for the man might have something special to show…

Vasilij Kindinov is a Latvian erotic artist who is unjustly little known on the international scene. In fact, his charcoal and digital works reveal a deep mastery of fine arts and a truly unique passion for historical and geographical settings which are pretty far from the classic erotic iconography, In addition to this, his philosophy is that the world is composed of two elements: pictures and punishments – and he is a master of both.

The November 4th edition of Sadistique, the largest Italian party for erotic domination and submission lovers, will feature the Italian debut of over one hundred of Kindinov’s works. Not just the finished pictures, but studies and sketches too, allowing you the opportunity of following the entire creative process leading to such unparalleled scenes for you to discover.