Prodomming has a very bad name on the Italian BDSM scene, but it’s mostly due to the absymal average quality of the local ladies – unprofessional and lacking of kink knowledge. Things are pretty different abroad however, where professional dominatrixes are esteemed pillars in our community.

The perfect person to tell you all about this is Xana, then. She is an Italian expat in Berlin who took up prodomming and collected quite a few stories about what the profession is really like. At the November 4th Sadistique party in Milano she is going to share them all, starting at 4PM sharp in a dedicated room with limited seating, so be German-precise and timely for this unmissable opportunity to shed a light on a rather unknown side of BDSM

They finally found us. Sadistique, the biggest Italian kinky party in Milano, has been a safe haven for every kind of witch and ghoul under the sun (or the moon…) since 2005 – but the Inquisition witchfinders have caught up with us. This year they won’t even try looking in the streets during the traditional Halloween trick-or-treating, and the inquisitors will descend on us on the November 4th afternoon.

Our cunning team has a plan, however. We made this month’s theme… The Inquisition itself, and in addition to our usual dress code we suggest our guests to adapt their fetishwear in order to confuse Torquemada and his goons. Dress as witches, demons, creatures of the night and as inquisitors themselves, and the fun-hating sect won’t be able to make head or tails out of it – hopefully leaving us to enjoy the event in peace. Also, following the month’s theme will increase your chances to win two entry tickets for the December edition if you let our photographer take your portrait. Ain’t that a great deal?

Oh, and if you are looking for inspiration, you can check out our customary gallery for ideas. We’ll be waiting for you (and keep the stakes unlit).

OK, so the rules would say only one couple must win our monthly contest. But look at them: aren’t they perfect so together? Also, let’s admit it… we’d never dare go against such a group of mystical entities anyway (and the fact that women have free entry at the club anyway sealed the deal). The prize is a series of entry tickets for the upcoming October 7th edition of Sadistique – and we can’t wait to see their new outfits!

Oh, Italians! Give them a hint of Catholic mysticism, and they run with it making it truly a spectacular thing. Case in point: last month’s Sadistique party, whose theme was Holy Perversions. Here’s a brief selection of authorized shots of our guests – with an ever-present madonna – but to learn the identity of the winner of the free entry tickets for the October edition you’ll have to wait a few days more.

So you have a wonderful BDSM relationship running – and then you or your mate decide to include someone else in. That’s called polyamory, and it can be a great experience for everyone involved if played in a clear and ethical way – but it also comes with its own peculiar set of traps and obstacles, and you’ll be much better off knowing about them and how to prevent and overcome them. Luckily for everyone, Sadistique – the wonderful monthly kinky event in Milano – has what you need.

On Sunday, October 7th, the party will feature a Master Class about polyamory held by no-one less than Monica Preziuso, one of the founders of Reti, the Italian association for ethical non-monogamy. It is going to be a quick (about 45 minutes) lecture with limited seating, so please be on time if you really want to get that BDSM three-, four- or whateversome sharp!

By day, Brutalhawk is a Dutch scientist. Once the lab coat is off, however, he goes back to his greatest passion: erotic photography. More specifically, he likes studio work using amateur models and creating a gossamer story in each shot, where every viewer can construct their own interpretation. He finally completes the job with a Photoshop pass – for example to give the pictures a grainy effect that makes them timeless – then it’s off to exhibit.

He had never come to Italy yet, but Sunday, October 7th, Brutalhawk’s works will finally get exhibited at Sadistique, the BDSM event in Milano that brings a different kinky artist in every month. Losing this opportunity to discover his photos is, clearly, unacceptable.

Autumn is here, for the joy of fetish lovers everywhere, who can finally go back to dressing a little heavier. Sadistique, the monthly BDSM event of Milan, is also back on Sunday, October 7th with Leather as the theme for them! Of course faux leather will be just fine if you are a militant animals lover, but the theme is customarily not binding anyway. The regular dress code applies, featuring the criteria for kinky outfits listed in our handy guide or gala dresses, both of which you can comfortably change into in our changing rooms – following the theme is just one more opportunity for fun.

A themed outfit is however one more chance to win the photo contest awarding two free entry tickets for the following edition to the best portrait allowed to be featured on this website. If you need some inspiration, here is a gallery for you. See you at the party!

Every month Sadistique, the event that gathers all the extreme eroticism enthusiasts in a Milanese club, has an optional theme for the dress code and two complimentary entry tickets for the person who best interpreted it and chose to be photographed and published on this website. This time they gladly go to this mysterious guest, who perfectly captured the spirit of a kinkier version of the One Thousand and One Nights tales we had suggested.

Just as expected, the July edition of Sadistique, the legendary BDSM party in Milano, has been a true oasis in the summer heat – an impression reinforced even by that month’s theme, which harkened to the legends of the One Thousand and One Nights. Here is a very small selection of the portraits taken that day (obviously with the explicit authorization of the subhects), while we wait a few more days to reveal the winner of the two complimentary entry tickets for the September 2nd date, awarded to the best-themed outfit.

Is it September already?

It looks like that, so this means that Sadistique, the greatest – not to mention longest-running – monthly BDSM event in Milano is back on Sunday, September 2nd!
Check out the homepage of the official website to see what we are setting up to welcome you back in town, and make sure to also keep in mind that, in addition to the usual basic dress code, this month’s theme is going to be… Holy Perversions!

As a matter of fact, go and take some inspiration from the gallery we set up for you: as you will see it is not just the Catholics who have a knack for turning sin into lust, as you can find a way to jokingly pervert pretty much every cult around. So, dazzle us with your interpretation of how saintly ascetism can get wonderfully kinky – the best themed outfit that will give permission to be photographed on our set will win two free entry tickets for the October edition!