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From the book\u00a0BDSM \u2013 A guide for extreme erotism explorers<\/a> <\/em>(by Ayzad)<\/p>\n
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- Nobody has to do anything. If you are proposed something you don’t like, a smile and a simple “no, thanks” will be\u00a0enough<\/li>\n
- Please also respect\u00a0those ideas you don’t agree with. If you don’t wish to see an activity or a person, you can move just a bit away from them<\/li>\n
- You need to be sober to do these things. Therefore please\u00a0avoid alcoholic excesses and don’t even think doing drugs. As a matter of fact, pointing users to the staff is a very good idea<\/li>\n
- Yes, there are slaves\u00a0at these parties. No, they aren’t your <\/em>slaves and you can’t afford to treat them any less respectfully than normal, unless you are specifically authorized to<\/li>\n
- Don’t touch anyone without asking permission first. This goes for fondling as much as other kinds of touching: the fact that someone is nude, smiling and sporting a large piercing doesn’t constitute an authorization to tease it<\/li>\n
- If you want to start a conversation with a couple, talk with the dominant partner first – and never <\/em>during a session or immediately after it, before they have fully recovered<\/li>\n
- If you want to watch someone’s play activities, keep a respectful distance at all times\u00a0and don’t be a nuisance. If they want other persons in, they’ll propose it themselves<\/li>\n
- To those playing it is really annoying to hear comments – especially if negative – from onlookers, and while focused it’s easy to catch\u00a0even whispers. Surely you can contain yourself!<\/li>\n
- If you are asked to move\u00a0away from a play session do it without discussions – there surely are excellent reasons to, even if you may be not immediately aware of them<\/li>\n
- If you see a session you judge dangerous or non-consensual don’t <\/em>interrupt it, but point it immediately to the staff. Managing these things is their job\u2026<\/li>\n
- If you want to use any implement, bring it from home: the club does provide some toys beside the furniture, but using your own tools is encouraged. Also, the best rule to follow is: one implement, one person – which is\u00a0also\u00a0ideal to avoid any risk of potential transmission of diseases<\/li>\n
- Follow the usual SSC principle, and demand that your play partners respect it\u00a0as well<\/li>\n
- Be sensible with sex games: the club always provides free condoms<\/li>\n
- If you are planning a particularly demanding session for space, time or implements, call\u00a0the club in advance to check if it is actually possible to perform it, and maybe \u00a0to get the staff help<\/li>\n
- When you’re through playing put everything back in its place to allow others to use the area, and clean anything you may have soiled<\/li>\n
- When the party is over, avoid talking about the guests with those who didn’t attend. Not everyone likes his activities and partners to be known<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n
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